Saturday, October 13, 2012

not contact him


Yesterday afternoon, Wang Hongyi's father, Wang Jinzhu the first time in eight years, the curtains of the room opened to the outside world, but the son has been suffering from severe depression has not the slightest reaction newspaper reporter Ning Fengshe neighbors said, a child of his mouth is sweet, met with adults to say hello; learning or school test grades in junior high school ranked in the forefront of the whole school year.
Today, the 21-year-old every day lying in bed muttering, but no one can understand. Last month, the mother died several days, he slept on the side do not know.
for fear bullied by classmates, who for eight years did not out of the house. And his father felt,
site preliminary diagnosis by a doctor, he suffered from depression.
event scared
mother died many days he slept next to not know
Wang Hongyi, who lives in Xi'an Spark Road, near the provincial textile company family member courtyard. This is a family of three, the North West Community staff a little door ten years ago began to deal with them. Poor The communities often send people to go to their house, and to do the minimal, every year condolences. June of this year UGG Tall Sheepskin Cuff Boots, the PTA to community certificates, Zhang Yaping know Liaoxiang Ju died. .
the community helped when dealing with Liao Xiangju remains, Zhang Yaping found some problems.
July 5, 2009, the community with the Mental Health Center of Xi'an, the three doctors came to Wang Jinzhu home inspection, initial diagnosis Wang Hongyi suffering from depression. On July 7, the center will Wang Hongyi picked up its detailed examination and treatment.
reporter's visit
the inside musty choking chopping board covered with flies
afternoon, the reporter with the House Committee Director Liu Yuling, knocking Yao Yang's house.
and open the security gates, musty is choking. He said, the room of 37 square meters, divided by the original unit in 1989 when he married the old house, including the kitchen of three, the plaster has already come off.
bedroom corner gray Nike Air Max Skyline Shoes, black-and-white TV on and off. Yao Yang, the wire aging, only one lamp, a rice cooker and wedding fan can Most appliances can not be used in the home. Messy kitchen the case of Taiwan,. His board, and flies off the thick layer; case the audience, the egg shell heap foot high white mold attached to the shell.
see a stranger entered the room, Wang Hongyi curled herself lying in bed, rubbing himself with shaking fingers, mouth himself. Said Yao Yang, Wang Hongyi bed every day, talking to himself. Child's brain. . These clothes mattress base about one meter showing black and yellow cotton cloth glowing oil black gloss, exposing ... you do not tidy up the house.
8 years between the first neighbors to Yao Yang the side exclaimed: >
son is now very happy and will not be bullied
are catching dinner time, Yao Yang asked his son to want to eat anything.
water under the noodles, salt, a few vegetables, stirring with chopsticks, Yao Yang to the rice handed the hands of his son, Wang Hongyi stood up from the bed, because there is no belt, pants slid down. Took the rice, he ate very fragrant.
said Yao Yang, the son of the original is very smart, but often fights at school and people afraid of the classmates bullied him since 2002, his son, and we do not want to go to school. He also worried that he would no longer be bullied by his classmates, let his son not to go school. Son and his selling newspapers at newsstands to see original exclaimed 8 years, felt the child increasingly normal. Would like to go out, but he was worried out bullied son to stay at home, and later advised his son to go around, the son does not go out. waste the money earned, the monthly living on less than $ 600. Spend every penny I have to take forever.
noon yesterday, the reporter once again see Yao Yang to his son, he clean up a bit, but also specifically cleaned the ground.
around the neighbor said, we are very concerned about this family, but Yao Yang has been refused. Although there household is not a lot of money, but still very loving, he repeatedly refused, we are not good tube thing of the homes of locals.
neighbor sigh
child childhood mouth sweet now so poor
the family member courtyard residents mentioned Yao Yang's son, said: The master said to him from small to large to see Wang Hongyi grew up a child, he mouth sweet, met with adults to say hello. Zhang Yaping, due to Yao Yang an account in their communities, community workers each year go to his house to see him. Children in junior high school, learning is also very good, is heard that was often bullied him in school, to Wang Hongyi things being bullied, I also go to school to coordinate. Liu Yuling said, in May of this year, Wang Hongyi mother often came crying to her, said he has not survive more than a long time, I do not know the future, the kids how to do.
family member courtyard the porter any master said: Even the relatives to visit them, the only thing to stay at the lodge Men's UGG Classic Mini, the passage of time, the relatives do not walk around.
residents said, weekdays see Liao Xiangju opportunities, her son and her husband rarely went out. Regardless of seasons, the curtains are closed. A family of three is doing every day, the neighbors do not know.
expert analysis
out of the shadows need long-term treatment
experts remind: educate children not only is the family
Wang Hongyi dialogue very difficult , soon began talking to himself, he often wander. 8 years, in addition to his father and mother, the neighbors said, did not contact him.
China Preventive Medicine Association children Injury Prevention and Control Team Leader, Shaanxi Provincial People's Hospital pediatric WOMAN, outdoor activities, and contact information is an important element of a mental and physical growth, Wang Hongyi home happens to be closed 8 years important stage in the development of life, although the inspection report has not come out, but for a long time the lack of outdoor activities, physical development are likely to be affected, long closed, so he has to live in their own world, only after a long period of physiological treatment with psychotherapy, to let him out of the shadows.
yesterday, the reporter found something son Yao Yang Guan UGG Ultra Short, many residents have long known, also advised Yao Yang come.
Ni Xiaoli, Xi'an Jiaotong University, PhD in psychology, that the parents can not deprive the rights of the child as a social person, and that deprivation of a child cruelty, may eventually lead to the deprivation of individual apathy, depression and emotional numbness and so on, there should be the involvement of the social organization. Many people believe that the parents how children in the family, outside society rarely to interfere with the fundamental reason is that the society did not attach importance to mental health problems. This hurt their children's education, is by no means a simple family, every society has a responsibility to help them solve problems. The newspaper reporter Du Junling Jia Chen intern Anrui 

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