Showing posts with label Then. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Then. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

this is my student beginning

What happened next, Amber things press not watch, first to share my gift experience it. Words have days, I finally met criminal appraisal experts, "Chinese detective" LiChangYu dr Ben honour, this is my student beginning from transmitting images.

His speech time is short, but does not affect it become my life hear the most valuable speech, no one for. He said, many people think that he is since the childhood to become detective, it's because there's no money, and Taiwan police school and exactly for free. His initial dream is actually playing basketball, but the coach tell him: two feet tall come again.

 LiChangYu said: "this thing to let me know: everyone has a limit. So you must be honest with yourself." This sentence, and another line let whole blood boiling "I lifetime actually do only one thing: is to make the impossible possible" controlled up, double thought-provoking.

Many times, we are short of is not "the impossible possible" ambition, but "true to yourself". On the other hand, LiChangYu become my idol then, is what I read law school, I also had tried, and the dead dreams do dialogue, do criminal attorney would be fine, but eventually I know my ability is not enough, so now also in honest write my column. So I think, know who he is, than to know oneself want to become who is more important.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

the girl think compromise after the tonsured

A girl come up with home, come to ask for my advice. I was a little bit surprised. The girl was very beautiful, have good job, income also good, calculate the typical white-collar workers. Some years ago, I know some young people because life frustrated devise home, I usually advised them to give up the idea of monks and live a good life. In general, people's eyes can be detached world trouble, patriarchal but they do not know, for the test of monastic life more than secular life.
The girl said devise home reasons. She belongs to the elderly unmarried. Now in the society of single men and women have played a statement, such as 30 years old the following for "remain male", "remain female", 30 to 35 years promotion for "remain fighters", again a bit bigger generally called the "left" big monkey. The girl 34, watch will enter the "left" big monkey ranks. She said that she had to be injured those. Since after thirty, parents if they met nothing topic, a come up to ask objects and marriage, and mobilized all social relations as she introduction object. She is a good girl, do not wish to parents, WeiAo grudgingly again and again dating. And parents introduction object standard is also a falling from age are not more than 10 years, until now 50 years old, from the other party didn't married up to now even with a history of child, are going on a blind date range. "But I really haven't appropriate." The girl said this year to see their parents very afraid of home, mother every time see her is a face of sorrow, said that she had let parents before kin friend have no face very much. But again failed mutually to also make her pride was hit. The girl felt like CaiChang pack before a sale of leftovers, or have doubled after picking cast aside.
Then, in persecutions quarrel, the girl think compromise after the tonsured, feel when this ability 100.
I asked the girl is really going to a lifetime single? The girl shook his head and said he wasn't single idealist, have suitable or are willing to have a family, but couldn't find the right also not the wish of sorts. With her boys of her age now surely would find more young. Let her find a 50-year-old man, if each other have feelings are ok, but no emotion to get married but married, she doesn't know what graph. If the other party to take a kid, enter the door to be properly stepmother, she wasn't this spirit is ready. So, touch the right, lifetime have also quite good, at least need not be wronged.