the girl think compromise after the tonsured

A girl come up with home, come to ask for my advice. I was a little bit surprised. The girl was very beautiful, have good job, income also good, calculate the typical white-collar workers. Some years ago, I know some young people because life frustrated devise home, I usually advised them to give up the idea of monks and live a good life. In general, people's eyes can be detached world trouble, patriarchal but they do not know, for the test of monastic life more than secular life.

The girl said devise home reasons. She belongs to the elderly unmarried. Now in the society of single men and women have played a statement, such as 30 years old the following for "remain male", "remain female", 30 to 35 years promotion for "remain fighters", again a bit bigger generally called the "left" big monkey. The girl 34, watch will enter the "left" big monkey ranks. She said that she had to be injured those. Since after thirty, parents if they met nothing topic, a come up to ask objects and marriage, and mobilized all social relations as she introduction object. She is a good girl, do not wish to parents, WeiAo grudgingly again and again dating. And parents introduction object standard is also a falling from age are not more than 10 years, until now 50 years old, from the other party didn't married up to now even with a history of child, are going on a blind date range. "But I really haven't appropriate." The girl said this year to see their parents very afraid of home, mother every time see her is a face of sorrow, said that she had let parents before kin friend have no face very much. But again failed mutually to also make her pride was hit. The girl felt like CaiChang pack before a sale of leftovers, or have doubled after picking cast aside.

Then, in persecutions quarrel, the girl think compromise after the tonsured, feel when this ability 100.

I asked the girl is really going to a lifetime single? The girl shook his head and said he wasn't single idealist, have suitable or are willing to have a family, but couldn't find the right also not the wish of sorts. With her boys of her age now surely would find more young. Let her find a 50-year-old man, if each other have feelings are ok, but no emotion to get married but married, she doesn't know what graph. If the other party to take a kid, enter the door to be properly stepmother, she wasn't this spirit is ready. So, touch the right, lifetime have also quite good, at least need not be wronged.