I asked her parents communicate with these ideas? The girl said, they simply don't listen, always think I'm not reality. Every time a dispute, mother is a relentlessly sigh, said age bigger is nobody wants, the drag the "sell" not go out. The girl in foreign companies doing administrative assistant, the boss of a rebuke would let her depressed for a long time, Now parents every day to her discontent, equal to every day in her life is declared to fail, this self-esteem blow comparable work much more severe setback.
The girl exclamation, the most ugly is that parents "complexion". Such words reminded me recently attended a party. That day come QiBaWei lady all unmarried, big 3067, small 2089. They told me, now the biggest problems facing not how love or: when did you get married, but how to deal with "BiHun parents". Parents persecute them make great anxiety, the entire people are a little "abnormal". A website work girl said, not desperate to get married not alive, again say, forcing you some good feelings all have no, could have married also marry failed.
Don't know parents whether understand this truth. The road of life there are many bars, getting married is not happiness, don't get married also does not necessarily mean that someone suffering. If really wants to marry a good daughter, BiHun counterproductive. In my opinion, it is this not infrequent "BiHun", the daily in the wrecked some girls self-esteem, including psychological persecution only parties before we know. Take charge of long daily anxiety-ridden disrelish daughter unmarriageable, this may even destroy daughter whole life -- is not only the marriage, also includes business and health, because in a competitive society under high pressure, the person all by self-confidence to fight life.
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